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  1. “Do Women Plan Their Wardrobe?”

    November 12, 2011 by barffie

    He asked me this as we were weaving through traffic to a wedding this morning.

    I shrugged and said, “I do. Not sure about other women…” I’d just spent an hour curling my long hair in preparation for my Blair Waldorf look. In my mind, I secretly recalled the hatching of the concept just about a couple months back.

    It first started with a dress I bought on ASOS. I found it via a search for “Peter Pan collar”, because well… I love Peter Pan collars. They remind me of my primary school uniform. I hated it back then, but I now find them oh so cute. They have since changed the uniform into something hideous.

    But I digress.

    That was about 3 months ago, as I went through a crazy dress-buying phase. I kept the dress for an appropriate occasion to wear. Probably a lunch wedding.

    So there were 2 weddings coming up, one’s a lunch and one’s a dinner. It was a no-brainer. So what hair do I wear for such dresses? I wore an updo for the dinner – something glam for night, coupled with scary smokey eyes. For the lunch – it was time to let my hair down… and with that preppy collared dress, I’d need preppy hair to match.

    I’ve never liked Gossip Girl, found it frivolous and pointless. But I could never take my eyes off Blair Waldorf’s style. Headbands! Big fluffy curls! Cute girly dresses!

    Perhaps it was turning 30 that turned me into someone who wants to be a schoolgirl again. Oh, dreams.

    So I bought 3 headbands from a cheapo shop with a surprisingly pretty range of headbands that didn’t look that cheapo to choose from. They were selling 3 for $5. So grabbed them I did.

    Then I needed the curls. My naturally wavy hair just wasn’t vavavoom curly enough. So I had to get myself a pair of curling tongs. Couldn’t bear to plonk money down on one (I’m cheapo, remember?) so I borrowed one from my colleague. I singed my fingers a few times and tangled my hair in the curling iron a few times. I also lost a bit of hair. *clutches desperately at broken hair*

    Long story short… here’s my hair. :D It wasn’t as big and fluffy as hers, but I guess with a pair of fatter curling tongs I might be able to achieve better effects.


    My waist-length hair was hidden behind… but you can see the collar from here (not exactly Peter Pan, but school-girly enough… And yes, there was a nasty cleavage that I am not sharing.


    Here’s a fuller version… I didn’t take a photo of the back. Damn.

    So yeah. I did plan quite far ahead, because it’s nice to put on make up and costume for loads of photo-taking opportunities! Hur hur hur. I liked the outcome and so did he. And so did my friends at the wedding.

    Good effort, I supposed!


  2. Rainy Days and Mondays

    November 9, 2011 by barffie


    Song by The Carpenters

    Must be the fact that I am getting old, but discovering oldies seemed to be a favourite past time of mine nowadays. So I uncovered this gem buried under a hunk of other classics by The Carpenters.

    It’s really nice to listen to. The simple musical accompaniment behind the voice that was telling a story…that’s really quite calming, isn’t it?

    Do you listen to music to reflect your current mood? Or do you prefer to let it transport you somewhere you’d rather be?


  3. Love ‘em. Hate ‘em.

    October 23, 2011 by barffie

    Shooes
    My latest pair of shoes

    I went on a self-imposed shoe ban for the most part of the year. I had to throw out several pairs of shoes that had one or more of the following qualities:
    1. Freakishly uncomfortable
    2. Made of super cheap and lousy material which peeled in storage
    3. Tore themselves apart once I wore them out (usually freakishly uncomfortable)

    I don’t think I will be buying cheapo shoes, unless they are good brands going under super discounts… or I’ll pass. Or if they are freakishly chic AND comfortable.

    Once I broke that ban after a period of what? half a year?… I got a pair of Doc Marts… then I got a pair of Americaya strappy sandals… and today, I got myself a pair of red wedges (my very first in years) from Forever 21 (not a shoe brand, I know). The toe box is wide, it has good arch support (sorely lacking in most shoes) and I like that it has a fabric insole which would prevent my sweaty feet from slipping.

    Plus it was only $45.

    My self-imposed bans never really last, as you can see. Except for one – I’ve not been to a hair salon for haircuts and colouring jobs for 3 years. Heh heh!


  4. Awesome Nyan Cat Remix

    October 12, 2011 by barffie


    Euro Nyan Cat remix is awesomez!

    RIP Steve Jobs. I loved some of your products. I still remember my first white 4G iPod. The first real sexy “gadget” I’ve ever owned. What a beauty.


  5. Thunder. Cat.

    October 4, 2011 by barffie

    Latte had always been afraid of the rain, especially when it’s a thunderstorm. She’d skulk and cower in a corner, looking very very frightened. Last night, there was an incredible storm that woke me up in the middle of the night. Knowing how she’ll be upset, I went out to the living room to look for her.

    She was hiding under the dining table this time. Tail down. Big, dilated eyes looking out at the window.

    I coaxed her out of her hiding spot and put her on my lap. Well, not exactly on my lap, but she curled up between my legs as I sat semi-cross-legged. She was shivering and twitching. But hey, she had never been a lap cat.

    Poor girl. I’m pretty sure she was scared out of her wits when she ran out a few years back. She spent a few days outside during a rainy season. The girl was literally catatonic when we finally got her back. I guess that’s where the fear came from.

    But I’ve sat beside her many times, comforting her that she is now safe in our home, and that she had nothing to fear.

    Silly Latte.


  6. Mending Fences

    September 22, 2011 by barffie

    I lost some friends a couple of years back due to some stupid politically-motivated, insomnia-induced lameass reasons… over some stuff that happened in the blogosphere. It was partly my own naivety and a misplaced sense of justice that I did what I did. Dragged my husband down with me in the process as well.

    As I was sorting through some really old photos last month or so… I found some photos of the 2 friends in my deep archives. I missed having them around, you know? And it was really dumb that I should lose these people because of some dumb mistake.

    So I reached out… and am really glad that the other side was receptive as well.

    Meanwhile, the huge, gaping wound from within the family also healed over in May, after the birth of my nephew. I’m so happy that everyone is back together as a family again. I wouldn’t trade this harmony for anything else in the world.

    So, after all of these silliness, my resolution after turning 30 is to be wiser, kinder and to stop making enemies.

    It’ll be tough, considering how impatient I am with people sometimes… but I’ll try. Yeap. :)


  7. Happy 30th to Me!

    September 18, 2011 by barffie

    So I turn 30 officially. Marking the end of my 20s… days of my youth, days of my daze, days of my search for the meaning of life.

    Here’s to the next decade of living my dreams of travelling the world, near and far, with the wonderful man who is my best friend, my emotional pillar, my lover.

    I hope we will stay together, with the silliest, furriest cats, and hope our relationship will only get stronger through the years.

    Hope we would never ever have to face a zombie apocalypse and in turn, starvation and suffering. Hope we would stay healthy and able.

    I wish for health and happiness to my family and my dearest friends… I promise I will try to be less jealous of your life and love mine even more.

    In the years ahead, I look forward to be finally debt-free and be able to eventually work in a job of leisure… so I can take life easier and to enjoy it better. I want to live a life of fewer anxieties and it’s definitely well within my reach.

    I love you Latte, Cookie, Gravy, Sweet Pie, Mystique, Mao Mao, Tian Tian, Ham and Cheese… thank you for coming into my life and making it really furry and stinky with your poop. It’s been great having pets in my own home.

    I have no idea what else I can be thankful for, but I’m glad to say I didn’t waste my 20s. I partied like an animal, I cried my heart out, I puked my guts out, I made lots of friends, I achieved glory in my career, I experienced bits of the world outside Singapore, I enjoyed food, booze, love and laughter…

    Happy 30th birthday to me. :)


  8. Coldplay

    September 15, 2011 by barffie

    I’ve never seen myself as a “band” music kind of person… my good friend Seekee is a big alternative/rock/jeng jeng jeng music person, but she has influenced me over the years a little… (BTW Happy birthday Seekeeeeeee!!!)

    Perhaps I can consider myself quite an Anglophile. Love British bands like Coldplay (mainstream but gooda), Jamiroquai and Keane; love trip hop, electro groups like Portishead, Massive Attack and Lamb; love artists like Amy Winehouse, Adele and Lily Allen; even Sophie Ellis Bextor and (Brit-manufactured) Kylie Minogue and their dance tracks I still love to this day. I may not been an Oasis or even a Beatles fan, but hey, I do love their compositions as well.

    What else? I also love British fashion, more so in recent years especially with the vintage revival… ASOS is an evil website…. Mulberry bags are to die for… Aiyah. I shall not go on!

    Anyway, what’s with my Brit raving, you may wonder? I came across Coldplay’s new single “Every teardrop is a waterfall”, and I absolutely am digging this sound. :D Looking forward to purchasing their new album.


    Every teardrop is a waterfall

    So hopeful, so current, so beautiful.


  9. If I Should Die This Very Moment…

    September 6, 2011 by barffie

    I wouldn’t fear
    for I’ve never known completeness
    like being here
    wrapped in the warmth of you
    loving every breath of you
    still my heart this moment
    oh it might burst

    could we stay right here
    till the end of time until the earth stops turning
    wanna love you until the seas run dry
    I’ve found the one I’ve waited for

    all this time I’ve loved you
    and never known your face
    all this time I’ve missed you
    and searched this human race
    here is true peace
    here my heart knows calm
    safe in your soul
    bathed in your sighs
    wanna stay right here
    till the end of time
    till the earth stops turning
    gonna love you until the seas run dry
    I’ve found the one I’ve waited for

    the one I’ve waited for

    all I’ve known
    all I’ve done
    all I’ve felt was leading to this
    all I’ve known
    all I’ve done
    all I’ve felt was leading to this

    wanna stay right here
    till the end of time till the earth stops turning
    gonna love you till the seas run dry
    I’ve found the one I’ve waited for

    the one I’ve waited for
    the one I’ve waited for

    wanna stay right here
    till the end of time ’till the earth stops turning
    gonna love you till the seas run dry
    I’ve found the one I’ve waited for

    the one I’ve waited for
    the one I’ve waited for

    They have released a new album this year. Oh golly.


  10. 紧张时间驾到!

    September 5, 2011 by barffie

    忙昏了头,但会有人可怜我吗?

    东西一个接一个冲着我来,差点就招架不住了。

    多两个礼拜就是我三十大寿,加上一个礼拜的休息日。。。真是等到花儿也谢了。。。

    力量!我有!虽然所剩无几。。。可是我还有一点点吃奶的力。。。拚了!


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